When we are not running

One memorable moment  in my high school life was the day I was Chuck Eichten’s assistant.  The ever-fabulous Chuck was our student body president and valedictorian. He was also the acting Principle in an administration sanctioned “Freaky Friday” day in which the student council ran the school (could that ever happen now?).  I don’t recall why my 1980’s feathered-hair coiffed self chose this role, but I do remember that I was a big fan of Chuck.  He was our leader.  I remember him as smart, funny and kind.  I don’t remember much ado about his diabetes, only that it was not in the forefront of his personality.  So after 30 years of avoiding the dreaded high school reunion, it was a true pleasure to find him at the one I decided would be fun (in my mind…thirty years being the perfect reunion to attend–people “are who they are” by this time, so you miss the years they pretended to be someone else.).  In what turned out to be a wonderful day of re-connection with so many old friends, learning that Chuck was/is a designer for Nike and writing a book about diabetes was of no surprise.

The Book of BetterLife with Diabetes Can’t Be Perfect–Make it Better, like its author, offers a witty and ardent view of the disease using a fresh approach. Through amusing graphics and ultra-positive prose, Chuck gets to the heart of being a diabetic.  This is the anti-text book look on living with diabetes.  But don’t look for sympathy here, Chuck wants you to get over yourself and get a grip on how you can make it better, in spite of your diagnosis.  He has made mistakes and offers them up as “road kill” so you don’t have to do the same.  His self-deprecating humor and strategically placed artwork is entertaining for the reader.   It’s as if he is saying…”Now that I have your attention…let me hi-light the seriousness of what you must do (to make it better)”.  Ask for help, know your doctor, get a pump, and assume control of your illness before it controls you–all important advice given in an honest tough love manner.   He puts forth a call to action that requires you to step up to your own plate, because with this disease (unlike most others), you can actually do something about controlling its effects. You should continue to support the cause, do what you can to facilitate change, donate to research–but ultimately, be your own hero.  Love it.

Chuck also wants you to MOVE your body.  As runners we all know the importance of thoughtfully fueling our bodies and making them move.  This book sings to all our obsessive callings for eating in moderation, embracing routine and digging deep when we are exhausted.   If you have diabetes, I am sure you will be inspired by this pep-talk of a book and if you don’t you will just enjoy learning more about a disease that affects so many of our friends and family in a simple entertaining way.

And speaking of high school…I think this book would be a great addition to any high school, middle school or college library.  It’s the graphic novel of diabetes books.  My teenagers thought it was pretty cool.  Great job Chuck!  And for those of us who love to use mantras for racing…I found one here for life:  “Make it Better, man*” (*circa-1980).

10 Questions for Chuck Eichten author of “The Book of Better—Life with Diabetes Can’t Be Perfect—Make it Better”

1. What is your idea of the perfect run?  Details please…when, where and with whom?

The perfect run is always early in the morning, everyone knows that. I bring Zipper the black lab and we go for a run in the hilly forests around our home in Portland. The forest is thick with this sense that you are not alone. Not scary sense, just this feeling that there are other living things around. I love it. And an early morning run feels like you are getting away with something –this great experience is yours for the taking and the rest of the sleeping world doesn’t even realize they are missing anything. Makes no sense to anyone who likes to sleep in the morning. If you come to Oregon we will go for a run in the forest early in the morning and undoubtedly you will see exactly what I mean, Monica.

 2. Do you race and what other forms of training/exercise do you do?  What one training tool/item/gear can you not live without?

No I don’t race! That is far too taxing for me!  Running for me is more of a personal experience than a community one. Oh, and I am too slow.

I figured out a couple years after I was diagnosed that moving regularly made a huge difference in managing my blood sugars. That was 30+ years ago. Since then I’ve done some form of exercise every single day. I’ve probably missed 10 days. Pretty obsessive.

I love to bike. I used to bike every day. It’s a great workout, easier on the knees. And I really like the idea of actually going somewhere. But running of course is more portable and clearly less equipment-dependent so I do far more running than biking. Plus the dog gets to run, and he, like me, needs the workout.

In terms of gear, I’m not a real gear guy, but I don’t know if I could get along without some Nike trail running footwear. Where I live, in Portland Oregon, it is wet maybe 80% of the year. I know wet feet never killed anyone, but the longer my feet stay dry, the better my run. I think Nike makes the best stuff, but—full disclosure—that is where I work.

 3. I learned more about the role carbohydrates play in diabetes from reading your book.  Can you discuss that balance and how you fuel for a run/exercise? What are the greatest challenges to running/exercising as a diabetic?

I love carbs, and I eat a lot of them but they drive up blood sugars. I try to mix carbs with protein and fat. Cheese and bread, trail mix, protein bar. It’s the old balanced diet thing your mom told you about. The combination slows the rate of absorption of the glucose and slows the rise in my blood sugar. The object is to keep blood sugars from going too high but still at a level where I can sustain a workout.

Strenuous moving, like running, is a tremendously helpful tool in managing blood sugars, which is what people with diabetes have to do constantly. The challenge is that when your blood sugar gets too low, the diabetic body says, in no uncertain terms, “STOP AND EAT. NOW.” Athletes think everything is simply “mind over matter.” We get used to overcoming barriers—like pain or heat or cold or hunger.  However, food becomes glucose in the body and glucose is what the body uses for fuel. Just like a car, if the fuel runs out—if blood sugars get too low—the vehicle simply won’t go. The body says, “No. You ain’t going.” Athletes aren’t used to anyone telling them they can’t do something.

Monica, I am convinced that all this food stuff is not that complicated. Humans, including humans with diabetes, happily can eat virtually anything they want. That’s the good part. But the hard truth is that we can’t eat AS MUCH as we want, WHENEVER we want. It’s that simple. Sometimes we have to restrain ourselves. Sometimes we have to say, “No, thank you very much. Maybe later.”
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I somewhat reluctantly picked up Gwyneth Paltrow’s new cookbook My Father’s Daughter  (not your typical cookbook name…not jumping off the shelf for sure) from the library.  I thought it might be plagued with privilege from an actress who has Steven Spielberg as a godfather.  But I have to admit, I love it.  Yes, her kitchen and her children (and she herself) are beautiful, but I am in love with her relationship with food.  Fresh ingredients cooked in healthy ways.  I tried one of the dishes out on my teenage children and even got an unprompted “good chicken Mom” from my son.  The never ending battle known as “dinner” has me always looking for more to offer at the table.  Gwyneth uses food to entertain, bond with friends and teach her children.  This cookbook is centered on her family both past and present.  An idea I embrace.  Some of my favorite moments are sitting at the table with my family enjoying a meal and the casual exchange of conversation that accompanies culinary togetherness.   She also reminds us that just preparing food can be about family.  I think back when my son was home from law school at Thanksgiving — I learned a lot about his life from a session of peeling potatoes.   My daughter studies while she bakes (or is it bakes while she studies?).  Somehow thoughts of quizzing her from her flashcards comes to mind if the smell of baked chocolate is in the air.  Taste, smell and the warmth of connection felt around the kitchen form mental snapshots like these that we carry with us.  Gwyneth is trying to do the same for her children.

And for those of us runners who are always looking for miles from our food I must note that she offers some good healthy options here.  She also works hard on her body so she can eat a plate of Paella or pancakes. Sound familiar? 

And yes, I do get that we don’t all look like Gwyneth, but I think we can learn from this renaissance gal.  I have to admit, I am a little jealous of her perfect life…but mostly just in awe.

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There is a running revolution taking hold and it’s wearing a skirt—a running skirt that is.  Women are making their way to the starting lines of marathons and halfs in record numbers.  They account for almost half (or even more than half) of the field these days.  Olympic runners like Paula Radcliffe, Kara Goucher and Deena Kastor are conquering motherhood and running.  We are all not only paying attention, we are cheering them on.  Running has helped many of us make our way through parenting by offering a dose of endorphins and a long distance friend to hear us out.  Women are trading therapy sessions for a pair of Asics and the open road.  Running carves out “me” time for the price of a pair of running shoes and a race entry.  It has not only become a catalyst for empowering women, but a stress-relieving companion in their quest to do it all.  There is no one lining the streets to cheer you on or give you a medal for motherhood, so why not get one for finishing a race.

Mom’s not only like to run alone, they like to run together and in groups.  They have formed front porch communities and taken them onto the road.  They have conquered personal goals and weathered triumphs, all while running together.  It is therefore not surprising that the release of the book Run Like a Mother: How to Get Moving–and Not Lose Your Family, Job, or Sanity has been a huge success.  It acts as the manual to the running/motherhood movement and lends a voice to this emerging runner profile.  It answers women/mother specific questions and offers advice not found in other running books.  It’s authors Dimity McDowell and Sarah Bowen Shea are on to something here.  They have become like the Oprahs of the mother runners.  Through their blog, Facebook Page, and Twitter (Sarah Tweets, Dimity Tweets), they have started a wonderful conversation.  It seems they are listening just as much as they are being heard.  Women relate to them.  They are both real moms, real runners and real people.

10 Questions for Dimity and Sarah:

1.  Running skirt, friend or foe?

Dimity:  Friend. Flatters like nothing else.

SBS:  BFF. I have a mutually exclusive relationship with my running skirts—I haven’t worn shorts in years.

2. What is your idea of the perfect run (details please…when, where with whom)?

Dimity:  Santa Fe Dale Ball Trails. 5ish miles. With my dog Dharma, before she started her annoying habit of just stopping cold on the trail behind me and staring at me like I was crazy.

SBS:  The Presidio & Golden Gate Bridge. Ninety minutes on a weekday morning. By myself—with my fond memories of living in San Francisco for eight years. I never stop marveling at the Bay Area’s natural beauty.

3.  Were you a runner or a writer first? How has running changed for you since writing RLAM?  How has writing changed?

Dimity:  Writer. Comes much more naturally me than running ever will. I think a lot more about my running while I’m running now. My mind used to wander; now it’s all about form.

SBS:  I started running in college before graduating to become a professional writer (and editor). Since writing RLAM, I’ve become an even more avid runner—I used to cross-train a lot more, but now I usually run six days/week. Writing still remains my bread-and-butter profession.

4.  Describe your present state of (running/training) mind and your goals/races for 2011?

Dimity:  Starting over (again). Focus will be on triathlons (Olympic, probably) and trail runs. No specific races yet.

SBS:  After three marathons in two years, I’m halving the distance—dropping down to half-marathons this coming year. I like being able to shower and eat brunch after a race—and not limp when I leave the restaurant. I’d like to dust a few seconds off my personal best and drop my time to 1:45.

5.  What one training tools/items/gear can you not live without?
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When Piper Kerman was incarcerated for a year on a ten year-old drug charge, she ran everyday around the track to keep from losing her mind.  The kindness of fellow inmates in this stripped-down world provided her comfort.  This book reminded me of the redemptive qualities of running.  And although this story is not about running, it plays an intimate part in the outcome.  Running sometimes saves us from ourselves.  It can provide peace to a troubled mind or solace to a busy soul.  It can act as a catalyst to knowing that we are capable of coming back from pain.  If life is like a race, we keep running, even when it really hurts.

The unexpected friendships that developed for Piper within the walls of the prison camp brought to mind threads of running friendships.  Although not even comparable to prison life, a shared experience of long training hours and personal triumphs (reduced to the toughness and the kindness within us) can bring forth some of the most unlikely bonds.  True colors are shown and respect is earned.  Humor and connection trump competition and rivalry.

Orange is the New Black – My Year in A Women’s Prison is a really good read that opens your eyes to the injustices within the walls of our prisons.  So much of it made me cringe.  Piper is one tough cookie.   I could not put this one down and was left wanting more.

If you’re looking for more about this book and Piper Kerman, see these videos and interviews:
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